idk its just incredibly fucked up how tma people are sexualized and objectified and assaulted by the world but can’t express our own sexuality without becoming Degenerate Rapist Pedos.
i will never fucking forget the double standard that trans girls calling each other sister while having sexual relationships is Real Incest That Needs To Be Condemned but wider society has spent the first half of the 20th century using “Mommy” and “Daddy” as shorthand for “sexy person”. fuck you. leave us alone.
once you stop actively ignoring the fact that transfems are disproportionately punished for incredibly popular fetishes it becomes blindingly obvious. i feel like you really need to be only told once.
also you just need to understand the panopticon that tma people exist under. like, there are people- naked fascists yes, but people on this website, people who proudly spout “FUCK TERFS” and consider themselves part of the Queer Community- who choose to spend their life investigating the sex lives of vulnerable women and broadcasting those sex lives to their audience.
also there’s this obe post going around abt moral ocd and i agree w almost all of it but it treats being told to be aware of yiur privilege as something shitty to people with ocd. and umm. idont know about you girls but as the ocd dog alter. whag the fuck are you talking about
like no being aware of the power you hold over others as a white person or a man or a cis person or on and on is. really important…….? these things permeate everything and if you arent aware of how you benefit from them you are doomed to perpetuate it. being able to look away at all is you using that very privilege. and if you cant overcome your guilt about it you are not being a very good ally to anybody i think
(ID: a screenshot of a tiktok with the comments open. rhe visible part of the tiktok shows text reading, “y'all about to be mad at me for this one but joining the military is equivalent to the girl version of becoming a stripper like y'all ran out of option too huh”. the pinned comment reads “no actually one is an honorable career that takes bravery and the other is the military”. there are 204k likes and 1400 replies. end ID)
